THE ONE does not exist!!

"If we are meant to be together, we don't have to fight for it, God will make us together." 


I don't know since when I have a negative feeling about the saying of "The one", this term has a hidden meaning of getting free lunch in love from my personal comprehension. On the contrary, I believe there's a thing called "romantic fatality", I can meet millions of people in my life, but only a very tiny part of them would catch my sight, and only a few/one of them would have the opportunity to stay in a love relationship with me, that's the power of romantic fatality. Having this magnetic pair-up is all by luck and solely due to fate, because I cannot plan to meet a total stranger in advance by myself who I know is a potential partner. However, what is going to happen between me and that person is largely under my control. If I like him, I can date him, if I want to be with him, I can fight for this chance. To make things happen rely on my own effort, if I leave the relationship go dead without trying to maintain it, it would fade away eventually no matter how powerful the fatality between us, so there's really no free lunch!

No couples are meant to be together without putting effort, you won't be able to enjoy real love and happiness if you are not willing to fight for it and make sacrifice.